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Be where you are, and live for the present


Contentment doesn’t happened overnight. You have to make an effort to find one, and to live a life to the fullest. The key to happiness it to be where you at, stop your mind from wandering to the shoulda woulda coulda things, and be present. Open your heart to whatever surrounds you. They’re the ones that is real. They’re the ones who was there when you need.

If somebody would ever hurt you, let them be. It’s in the past, so there’s nothing you can change about it. Forgive them and move on. It’s not for them, it’s for you. The wound needs to heal, and the only way to stop it from bleeding is to stop revisiting those terrible memories. 

Be present. Focus on the people who love you and care for you. Let them in. Let them feel included in all aspects of your life. Learn to be.. loved.

Because darling..

There will come a day, when you hear the news that they’re gone. Or perhaps.. you’re gone. At the end of the day, all you had to keep is just memory and the time you’ve spent together. Don’t let it slip away because you’re too busy thinking those who’ve hurt you in the past, or the unknown prince you’ve been wishing for. They’re not real. These people are. 

Open your heart to every possibilities, even the scariest one. Let loose, let the universe work it ways, focus on what you can change, focus on the people who love you and you love back. 

And that’s dear.. is how the doors are finally open for you.


Bogor, March 12 2021


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