After a sobbing story from my friend, she told me last night. I wanna say to all women I care about..
If you've been struggling onto something, and you did a stupid mistake, please for the love of God, don't hate yourself. It's not her fault.
Anyone in that position, in your position, who has been struggling that much and be put on such a situation will certainly take the same decision. If you think that stupid, maybe because it is. But who doesn't? Everyone made a stupid mistake, and it's normal for you to make one.
Don't hate your self just because you feel miserable. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay to not being a good girl or making a smart decision.
Let your self grieve for a while. Mourn, cry, whatever ease your heart. Scream if you must. Call your friend and cry, let them hear you cry for twenty minutes.
But you should know when to stop. Know when to stop grieving, and put your self back together.
And after that, the first thing you must learn is to love your self more than before. Try to take care of her, know her, understand her, until you figure out what you really want in life. What kind of life you wanna live in. Put your self first on every decision you're about to make.
That mistake was there just so you can find your way back to yourself, not drive you further away.
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Saturday, 18 July 2020, at 12.21 pm.
If you've been struggling onto something, and you did a stupid mistake, please for the love of God, don't hate yourself. It's not her fault.
Anyone in that position, in your position, who has been struggling that much and be put on such a situation will certainly take the same decision. If you think that stupid, maybe because it is. But who doesn't? Everyone made a stupid mistake, and it's normal for you to make one.
Don't hate your self just because you feel miserable. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay to not being a good girl or making a smart decision.
Let your self grieve for a while. Mourn, cry, whatever ease your heart. Scream if you must. Call your friend and cry, let them hear you cry for twenty minutes.
But you should know when to stop. Know when to stop grieving, and put your self back together.
And after that, the first thing you must learn is to love your self more than before. Try to take care of her, know her, understand her, until you figure out what you really want in life. What kind of life you wanna live in. Put your self first on every decision you're about to make.
That mistake was there just so you can find your way back to yourself, not drive you further away.
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Saturday, 18 July 2020, at 12.21 pm.
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