Belle from Beauty and The Beast has to be a prisoner in the dungeon before she meets her prince charming and the not-provincial-life she always wanted.
Blair from Gossip Girl has to marry the wrong prince and almost lost her kingdom before she marry her true love.
The thing about something we want the most.. is that it never come easy.
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A friend once asked me.. 'is it wrong if I want someone to take care of me even if I already have a husband?'
I said, yes. Yes it's wrong.
But the wrong thing isn't about the affair - she wished to have - it's about the desire that has no way to be real. It's not wrong to desire a handsome guy to fall in love with you, but it's wrong if you don't know how to find a way to make it true.
Something that you want, that you kept in your heart for so long, need a way to figure out. Or else, it'll be a stone, blocking your heart from happiness. Because you're still holding this stone, it weighing you down and you absolutely have no idea how to turn the stone into diamond.
It's clear that if you have had the stone for so long, now is the time to pick the choice; release or find a way. If.. the stone is beyond your control, that you will have no power to force universe to work as you please, then releasing it is the best you can do.
I don't say it'll be easy, I say best. Because great things will never come easy. One must follow through fire and hell to find piece of heaven.
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You can't control your future, but you can control your behaviour. You can't plan your money bank, but you can optimize your expense. you can't plan to whom you marry, but you can always prepare to be the best person someone will marry.
And there is something about Ramadhan, that will help people change their self. To turn into the best version of them self. That's why Islam is not celebrating New Year, and marking the day as the new change. Because change isn't a one night process. It takes repeated habit, willingness, and strong desire. And in Ramadan, where in a month a person could pray a little more than usual, wake up a little earlier than usual, and the world is magnificently be quieter than usual.. someone will realise so many things. As long as he/she open his/her mind for every possibility.
If you're holding the stone right now, wanting something so deep that you don't know how to make it happen, now is the time to communicate it to the universe. In your prayer, night and day. And if you want to be happy, try say 'I want this one, but You Know better what's best for me. So whatever it is You have planned for me, I will accept it gracefully because I know whatever it is, You always send me happiness I never thought I could have"
Blair from Gossip Girl has to marry the wrong prince and almost lost her kingdom before she marry her true love.
The thing about something we want the most.. is that it never come easy.
***
A friend once asked me.. 'is it wrong if I want someone to take care of me even if I already have a husband?'
I said, yes. Yes it's wrong.
But the wrong thing isn't about the affair - she wished to have - it's about the desire that has no way to be real. It's not wrong to desire a handsome guy to fall in love with you, but it's wrong if you don't know how to find a way to make it true.
Something that you want, that you kept in your heart for so long, need a way to figure out. Or else, it'll be a stone, blocking your heart from happiness. Because you're still holding this stone, it weighing you down and you absolutely have no idea how to turn the stone into diamond.
It's clear that if you have had the stone for so long, now is the time to pick the choice; release or find a way. If.. the stone is beyond your control, that you will have no power to force universe to work as you please, then releasing it is the best you can do.
I don't say it'll be easy, I say best. Because great things will never come easy. One must follow through fire and hell to find piece of heaven.
***
You can't control your future, but you can control your behaviour. You can't plan your money bank, but you can optimize your expense. you can't plan to whom you marry, but you can always prepare to be the best person someone will marry.
And there is something about Ramadhan, that will help people change their self. To turn into the best version of them self. That's why Islam is not celebrating New Year, and marking the day as the new change. Because change isn't a one night process. It takes repeated habit, willingness, and strong desire. And in Ramadan, where in a month a person could pray a little more than usual, wake up a little earlier than usual, and the world is magnificently be quieter than usual.. someone will realise so many things. As long as he/she open his/her mind for every possibility.
If you're holding the stone right now, wanting something so deep that you don't know how to make it happen, now is the time to communicate it to the universe. In your prayer, night and day. And if you want to be happy, try say 'I want this one, but You Know better what's best for me. So whatever it is You have planned for me, I will accept it gracefully because I know whatever it is, You always send me happiness I never thought I could have"
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