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A letter to The Woman

Like a music playing in harmony,
One cannot stand without the other, beautifully.
Only woman with enough self love and self confidence can be true to her heart and not living miserably.

Why so sad?
Why you always sad?

You may hate this but none will ever care how sad you are until you die of sadness then they'll start to say "oh how poor she lives in sadness and all struggle for everyone but her self" before they walk away from your grave and continue their life.

For the love of God, Dear Woman..

Please love your self.
Do your best to make you happy..
Stop drawing attention from those who doesn't matter.
They only need you when they need you, and forget you when they just want you.

So please, now. Stop!

Stop living in fantasy. About love you will never found in anybody. But in you.

Love your self enough until you can move a mountain.
Love your self enough until you brighten people's day.

Love your self enough, before giving abundant love you always had..

The world is cruel. Face it.

Face it with your smile open.
Face it with your heart beats loud.

Face it, good woman, face it.

The world won't give you the thing you want.
But it gives all the things you need.

Only when you let it be.

So let it be.


To the friend I always love, even when we're not in the same age, but we do in the same phase. I love her. And I hope she does love me back.


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